Your World of Love

I was speaking to a friend and she told me that she doubts people's love for her

Then upon hearing more from her,

I managed to give her this analysis:

When you want to show your love for someone,

do it willingly,

and NOT for a purpose.

Unconsciously, you might be expecting something in return when you do something for someone.

For example, a simple gesture may be a form of showing your love for that person.

But you cannot tell yourself in your mind that you want that person to reciprocate.

We all know that Love cannot be forced.

Take a Boy and Girl for example.

The Boy can like the Girl but he cannot expect the Girl to do the same.

Every one of us are entitled to our own individual thinkings and opinions.

I learned this from my cousin.

You cannot force your thinking and opinions on others.

Similarly, you cannot be influenced by other's opinions.

You also CANNOT influence others to think along the same line as you.

But its important to know that your actions and words might change other's opinions about you.

And "through your actions and words, people will see what kind of person you are"

Someone told me this before,

"This world is a sensitive world, 1 wrong word and you die"

I absolutely believe so.

And also when they say "the walls have ears".

Now back to the topic about Love.

What is a World with Love?

A World with Love starts off from You Loving yourself.

When you Love yourself,

You stop expecting Love from other People.

People will love for who you are,

Not Love you because you WANT love.

People are not obliged to Love you.

Then what about friends?

If you think about it, friendship sometimes can be like a contract.

Once you go against one of the terms and conditions, the contract is voided.

Similarly, if you do something that threatens to go against your friend, then the friendship is affected.

But having said all these,

My trainer told me this, and i believe it is very true.

You are the cause of everything.

Therefore, the effect to everything is dependent on You.

Your actions, your words.

This is the formula to life.

This is the Law of Attraction.

You are the magnet that attracts all other things.

So the question is:

Are you attracting the positive or the negative?